Why is it the majority of people can not deal with the issue of change? Why at times does it take a down swing or a major crisis for people to readjust their life and make an attempt to improve or start their own personal self development goals?
I read recently that 95% of the people in the world do not know how to develop their own…. personal skills. So just imagine a balance scale, with that huge percentage of people who are contained on the overloaded, heavy side, who do not make any attempt towards achievement, setting any type of personal goals or try for ultimate success in life development.
I myself have to wonder how that other 5 percent of people seem to have all the major success in life, while others can not get away from failure, and the majority of individuals are just struggling through daily routines, not knowing how to make the change to take the path of personal success and personal financial freedom.
Building and succeeding in one’s own personal development takes some solid foundations that most people claim they are not aware of, or worse they have no desire to change and improve their future outcome.
So how does one become that individual who strives for improvement to work for and achieve a higher lifestyle? For each of us the road to travel to get to that point, and the reasonable answer will be totally different for each person.
What prevents someone from improving their lifestyle, from achieving any type of long term improvement….
1 .Lets start with lack of knowledge, most people want to have a better lifestyle yet they only keep dreaming about it and not knowing how to change things or succeed for the better. Perhaps you and the majority of the population have not discovered the best options for a success life improvement..
2. Determine what gives your life meaning, what is the outcome that you really want, be brutally honest with yourself.
3. Lack of a plan, if you don’t have a guideline or road map how are you going to get to where you want to be? Once you discover the system that will work for you, learn to improve and grow and repeat your steps, build and maintain your network of professional contacts and any resources that are available.
4. Perhaps the lack of failure or lack of success is caused by not having the right network of people to follow or having the proper mentor to show you the ropes. It is important that you find a resource of people, and proper usage of information that will transform your future.
5. You will need to have the passion and the drive to maintain the speed you want to travel and fight the bumps and detours along the way. How do you do this? For your own development it is all about your beliefs your mind set, your motivation. Combined together it drives you to do remarkable things and to overcome the barriers that are put in front of you.
The more passion and drive you have the more you will be inspired to follow through on your goals and your development timeline. Believing and having faith starts on the inside of you before you can see the results. Have faith in yourself and your possibilities.
Here is a task for you to do today…learn to be a people watcher, take a good look at the everyday life of others, do you see and hear the fear that people display? Can you see the uninspired, the individuals that have no motivation, no passion, that are stuck in a low quality of life? So many people are stuck and only live in the day and can not or will not develop themselves for a better future.
You only have this one life so start a plan to change yourself right now, you need to decide what side of the balance scale you are going to end up on.. There are millions of individuals on that failure side so learn to grow and improve your life to get to the higher side of that balance scale.
Here are some good pointers that will jump start your own self development program…
Learning to exceed and grow your energy level on what is important in your life, be able to expand and as they say “think out side of the box“. Learn all you can on the topics that are of interest to you. Eliminate activities that will waste your time
Learn to keep focused and be positive on what you want and the end results that you know you can and will achieve
Learn to avoid and to block out any negativity that seems to pushed us on a daily basis, from outside sources, even people you do not know can affect you if you allow them too.
Learn how to get organized and stay that way, in daily activities and mental awareness
Now, you have the power to change the direction of your life and your personal wellbeing ….so, do something about it!